Service before superiority
Helping, listening, choosing well.
Leadership at Stone River is service and reflection — never competition, never superiority.
Why this matters.
We reject the toddler-CEO fantasy. Real leadership at three, four and five looks like helping a younger friend, listening before speaking, making a thoughtful choice, and caring for a community that isn't only you.
Daily practice
What it looks like on any Tuesday.
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Cross-age mentoring — older children reading to younger ones
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Rotating helper roles: table setting, plant care, greeting visitors
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Class meeting moments where children propose and vote on norms
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Language of choice — 'you may' and 'you can' more than 'you must'
Kindergarten peers who volunteer, not who dominate
Confidence that doesn't require anyone else's smallness
A citizenship habit long before civics class


